Showing posts with label Power. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Power. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The Power Of Telling Your Story

Story telling is a basic part of being an entrepreneur. Every one of us has a different story to tell, whereas an entrepreneur your story connects you to your audience and unrealized clients. The power of telling your story is an needful tool for every entrepreneur.

Your own onliest stories make you different than allotment one in addition. This difference is indispensable for you to share with others for them to know who you are, what you do and why you do it.

Every successful entrepreneur and speaker shares his or her story with the world. Storytelling is a powerful tool that bridges the space between our thoughts and our emotions. A powerful story will touch other people at their core. A good story will pull the listener in and create some type of reaction. Your story is what people will remember and repeat to others over and over again while facts and figures are soon forgotten. Everyone loves a good story.

So why care if your story creates a reaction in someone else? To move people whether it ' s for a cause you are deeply passionate about, a product you are passionate about or a service you are passionate about, your story shares your passion and your message more powerfully than anything else. Most successful speakers, entrepreneurs and writers are good storytellers.

A powerful story will command the audience and keep the audience hanging on every word, wanting to hear more.

So why are we so passionate about telling our story? When we first started to dream about our new business, helping women have the lifestyle they desire through entrepreneurship, we were not exactly sure how our story fit in.

Our story is about the loss of our daughter and sister. Her name was Serena and at 15 months old she passed away in a drowning accident. She was a beautiful girl with blond wispy curly hair, big blue eyes and the ability to find something to get into in a split second.

One summer evening, while I was busy preparing dinner she noticed the door had not latched shut. She had slipped out the front door, and gone over to a small Koi pond we had in the yard. She leaned over to watch the fish fell in, and drowned.

Her loss changed our paths forever. We became extremely aware of the importance and value of family time and spending time with the important people in our lives. Just one moment of time with her would be priceless.

The importance of living your life to it ' s fullest, a life without limits, to live every moment to it ' s fullest this became our story. To help women live their life as they choose, without limits this became our purpose and mission.

Storytelling is the most powerful tool we have in conveying our message, stimulating emotions and creating actions. Using the power of storytelling is an important tool in every entrepreneurs skills list.

Friday, September 14, 2012

When The Heart Heals A Widow ' s Story - Excerpted From The Healing Power Of Love

At this point, widowed for about 18 months, I met Hal the night I attended my last eradication backing collection meeting. I was this day affected to his energy. We seemed to have a lot in common, both professionally and emotionally. I gave him my business card with the witting feeling that he would call, but I had no idea if it would be in a season or a while. I purchase a lifes philosophy that things happen when they should.

Hal called about six months succeeding and we had bee together; stuff moved very rapidly, powerful rapidly for my comfort, but I felt emotionally defended with him and we connected hearty on profuse levels because of all we had in common.

Over this time, the pain of losing my spouse had grown softer and the sweet memories stronger, but I did feel a need to talk to my adult step - daughters. I wanted to know how they felt about my becoming romantically involved again, and to assure them that my new feelings for Hal did not in any way change how I felt about their father, or themselves. As for myself, I didnt feel disloyal to my late husband, or feel that my new relationship in any way lessened my love for him. My step - daughters not only understood my need to re - create a life that once again embraced a loving, romantic relationship, but encouraged it. Bless their hearts, for they instinctively knew that I wasnt trying to replace their father or the relationship we had created among ourselves and continued to treasure, that I would simply be adding another dimension to my life.

My late spouse wasnt retired, so our days had been traditionally structured. Although I have always worked at home, I liked knowing I had work time to myself. Hal is retired and since Im self - employed, we can live our lives spontaneously. The challenge was in my not being able, or even willing, to be as available for Hal as he would have liked. My late spouses personality was entirely different from Hals, but I found each to be compatible with mine. Hal is much more romantically demonstrative, which I enjoy. However, I dont compare the two, and so, the difference has not impacted our relationship.

Moving from intellectual concept to emotional reality, overlapping my loving and my grieving, required a giant leap of faith when it came to becoming involved in this new relationship. I was scared. When I met Hal, almost a year and a half into my mourning, I was finally doing okay. I had a satisfying career, good and loving friends and family around me, a satisfying balance in my life. I was feeling good, strong and grateful for the joy that my life once again embraced.

No longer did I think sex would be part of my life, and that was fine, as I was putting my creative energies into other aspects of my life. While the idea of perhaps loving someone was always a possibility, intellectually, I knew that if it happened, okay, if not, my life was fully satisfying. Well, this new possibility knocked me for a loop; this attraction to Hal was emotional, intellectual, and yes, physical.

Slowly I began to trust and enjoy Hal. Or, perhaps, better said, I began to trust myself again to be emotionally safe in a new relationship and so, I was able to meet him halfway. Its still scary, but my level of comfort continues to grow, as does out relationship.

Excerpted from THE HEALING POWER OF LOVE: Transcending the Loss of a Spouse to New Love by Gloria Lintermans & Marilyn Stolzman, Ph. D., L. M. F. T., Published by Champion Press, Ltd. ( ISBN 1 - 932783 - 51 - 2 ).